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Sleepy Ds are back. This week Sally and Bec put on their detective hats for four real listener questions — and as always, they love a side quest.
From a 14-month-old waking every two hours in a co-sleeping setup where mum feels like she's tried everything, to 8-month-old twins early rising on three naps, a 12-month-old with habitual 10 PM and 2 AM feeds, and an 18-month-old screaming the house down at bedtime — this episode covers the full spectrum of what families are actually living right now.
Sally and Bec break down why "I've tried everything" often means behavioural sleep training hasn't been tried properly or consistently, why the 14-month age group is one of the most common they see, and why zooming out is the single biggest gift a sleep consultant brings. Bec shares a real case study of a two-and-a-half-year-old whose cot was removed six months ago — and what happened when they brought it back. Sally walks through a 2-year-5-month-old who had been a great sleeper at 8–9 months and then fell apart 17 days ago.
For the twins question, they dig into corrected age, calorie distribution, dream feeds for twins specifically, and why early rising is almost never the right trigger for a nap drop. For the night weaning question, they unpack the difference between extinction and modified Ferber, dummy replug strategy, anchored feed times, and how to teach a 12-month-old to find their own dummy. For the 18-month regression, Sally explains the rule of threes, why checks can make things worse and what to do instead, and how filling an autonomy cup during the day gives you the backbone to hold a boundary at bedtime.
What You'll Learn:
- Why "tried everything" usually means one key thing hasn't been tried — or hasn't been done consistently enough
- How the 2-to-1 nap transition makes 12–15 months one of the trickiest ages Sally and Bec see
- Why early rising almost never signals it's time to drop a nap
- The difference between extinction and modified Ferber — and which fits a dummy-using 12-month-old
- How to anchor overnight feeds and organically nudge them out
- Why check-ins can escalate an 18-month-old and what to do instead
- The rule of threes for toddler habits
- How micro-choices during the day support bedtime boundary-holding
Chapters:
00:00 – Welcome back, Sleepy Ds
00:37 – Side quests, adenoids and Dirty Dancing
02:42 – Question 1: 14-month-old, waking every 2 hours, co-sleeping, tried everything
06:17 – Why "tried everything" often misses the full picture
11:08 – Bec's real case: bringing the cot back for a 2.5-year-old
15:14 – Why having a coach changes everything
19:05 – Question 2: 8-month-old twins, 3 naps, early rising at 5–6 AM
24:31 – Why we don't drop a nap to fix early rising
27:14 – Lining everything up so there's just one thing to do
30:11 – Question 3: 12-month-old, 10 PM and 2 AM feeds, night weaning plan
34:06 – Extinction vs modified Ferber, dummy strategy, anchored feeds
38:00 – How long will night weaning take? The honest answer
39:42 – Question 4: 18-month-old screaming at bedtime, checks make it worse
41:19 – The 18-month regression, autonomy cups and micro-choices
44:18 – When to reduce check-in input and lengthen intervals
46:16 – The rule of threes and when to hit reset
47:41 – Wrap up and sleep crimes ahead
ABOUT NAP TRAPPED:
Nap Trapped is hosted by Sally Woods (The Sleep Concierge) and Bec Maher (The Sleep Centre) — two Australian sleep consultants who work with real families every single week. Evidence-based, warm, and refreshingly honest about how hard this actually is.
Links:
Sally – https://www.instagram.com/thesleepconcierge/
Bec – https://www.instagram.com/_thesleepcentre/
Podcast – www.naptrappedpodcast.com
